But for that very reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his unlimited patience as an example for those who would believe on him and receive eternal life.
When your partner holds on to hurts and pains of past fault, this becomes a hindrance to a happy marriage. You cannot love without being hurt. Love gives the other person a chance and love learns to forgive. Love keeps on trusting over and over again.
Ask God to help you to have patience and forgiveness from the hurts that you feel and ask God’s unconditional love to pour out unto us to love our partner for a better marriage.