Proverbs 16: 23-24
A wise man’s heart guides his mouth, and his lips promote instruction. Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.
Words might be good and kind. We may appear happy in front of others but our thoughts on the other person might be bad. However, as time passes by, there is no unrevealed secret. The person in which you show goodness but really not giving trust to that people will appear and may be discerned by him. This happens because thoughts and words are together. What we think is showed from our words.
Don’t make the mistake of thinking that you can let your thought life run in any worldly direction and then ‘fake it’ by speaking godly words. Either both are pleasing or both are negative and sinful. There is no middle ground.
Let us adjust our thoughts and minds and actions. Let us not fake it. Let us think Godly and speak godly.